Robin Dellabough: From the Linen Closet

The Kitchen Linens Book: Using, Sharing, and Cherishing the Fabrics of Our Daily Lives

When they married in the early 1950s, my parents lived in Greenwich Village, wore black berets, turtlenecks, and blue jeans, wrote poetry, and painted. They had grape-stomping parties that led to vinegar more often than wine, and listened both to cool and red-hot jazz. They embraced what used to be called the Bohemian life.

Then their first child was born. And although I slept in a dresser drawer rather than in some fancy bassinet those first few months, my mother decided she had to start my hope chest immediately. She bought a piece of off-white linen, 60 by 100 inches, large enough to cover the dining table she already envisioned for me, and chose thread in shades of rust and turquoise. Working in old-fashioned cross-stitch, she painstakingly embroidered a wide border. Or at least she tried to embroider a wide border. Five more children and two moves interrupted her plan.

I discovered the unfinished tablecloth in the back of a closet when I was ten years old and working on my own embroidery project, a monogrammed handkerchief for my grandfather. When she explained what it was, I thought, How silly to make something for someone twenty-five years in advance. Then I decided it was a shame—and she should be ashamed—that she hadn't been able to complete it. It became a running joke between us, as periodically I'd ask, "How's my tablecloth coming along?" She'd answer, "Oh, I'm going to get to it when your brothers leave home . . . after I go back to school . . . when we come back from Greece . . . when I have more time."

Nearly twenty years passed. The day before my own wedding, I walked into my backyard in Berkeley, California, where I was living what used to be called the hippie life. There, at a shower filled with balloons and flowers and friends, my mother handed me a box and, before I even opened it, knowing what I would find inside, every stitch made with love, I was moved to tears.

It's been thirty more years, and my mother has passed. The tablecloth is stained now with countless Thanksgiving gravies and candle wax, but I still use it on the special occasions when my brothers and sisters and their families are gathered in my house. I quietly finger the embroidery during dinner, sending a silent thank-you to my mother, who somehow found a way to transcend time. —From The Kitchen Linens Book, Andrews McMeel Publishing


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The Kitchen Linens Book: Using, Sharing, and Cherishing the Fabrics of Our Daily Lives

Author: EllynAnne Geisel
ISBN: 978-0-7407-7763-9
Format: Hardcover, jacketed: 7 x 9, 152 pages
Price: $19.99 ($24.50 Canada)


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